Going social doesn't mean you become social. It only means you go out to look for some and in each group, place you enter you'll still be standing out, throwing off the group dynamic, etc.. Social descriptions are shitty, a lot of Social seconds think they don't care when they really have no idea what it is to be outside the herd. It's definitely unlike being up on tumblr after midnight and sharing stuff. You've got a good taste, though, I just don't get why not directly approach someone instad of leaving leaving these behind as messages in a bottle in the social web.I'm sx/sp and when reading the sx description I agree that I am more social when I desire a partner. But once I find one, I go back to one-on-one and really don't like to go back and forth to social once I'm in a relationship.