I do love her. I wish she knew that. We have an interesting friendship. I know her very well yet she does not know me very well. She truly feels like a sister to me though. I wish we were closer.You and your postings about ENFJ/ENTJs.... You must really love your ENFJ <3
Actually, I think it is an interesting match because you both share the same way of processing information but for two entirely different ends. Well, maybe not entirely... you seem to be a nice ENTJ
I think that the conflict comes when making decisions. ENTJs are very logical and practical and will not factor how they feel (or how others feel) into the decision. They look at the end goal and the end seems to justify the means in a lot of cases. ENFJs make decisions based on feelings and can't understand impersonal judgement. They are concerned with the process and not just the end result. The end does not justify the means for the ENFJ.
I have a friend ENTJ who is a manager. She can't make decisions based on others feelings because she has to focus on the end result. It isn't even a problem for her as she isn't sensitive to the mood in the room and can execute decisions with precision and speed. She has a good skin and needs it for her job. Her lack of sensitivity is both a blessing and curse. She sometimes wishes she could understand others feelings more, but to be super sensitive could also jeopardize her effectiveness as a manager because she must tell people what to do without regret.
We don't understand each other a lot of the time but we respect each other and value our differences.
Get ready for a lot of conflict, but if you're both willing to grow it can work. I can tell you now, you're going to unintentionally hurt her feelings by being direct and unemotional. She's going to not understand why you can be so cold and callous. You're not going to understand why she's so overly emotional about everything.What do you ENFJ's think about being in a relationship with an ENTJ?
Are there any famous ENFJ-ENTJ couples I might know?
So in what ways has he been a jerk sometimes?I have a very close ENTJ friend, and he's definitely hurt my feelings a few times, although I understand via his actions that he does actually care about me, even if he isn't always verbally expressive of it.
He can be sort of a jerk sometimes, but he doesn't always know he's being one....it isn't usually vindictive or anything. I admire his strong will, which in large part resembles my own.
Well, when I've cried and tried to be sentimental with him he has completely been sarcastic and rude, albeit that was a few years ago. He's pretty self-absorbed, he doesn't naturally remember a lot of details about people (nor does he apologize for it, or most things) which makes him seem inconsiderate. He also says things that are really blunt and offensive to many individuals.So in what ways has he been a jerk sometimes?
And through what actions has he showed you that he cares about you?
It's definitely the Ni! ENFJ's are awesomeENTJ men are the only ones I can truly see myself in a meaningful, committed relationship with. We have a magnetic pull to eachother...Ha! Even before I discovered MBTI, I had always noticed a certain type of men I was attracted to. They all of turned out to be ENTJs. I have never felt that connection with anyone else, and I think our Ni has always been the cause for that.
It is??That's pretty unique for an ENTJ.
In my experience, I am more introspective than other ENFJs. I feel that my Ni is just as strong as my Fe, so sometimes I can be mistaken for an INFJ. I noticed that I don't idealize people so much, I mainly idealize life and self expression, such as dance. That is where my ENFJ passion comes out
As a four, I put much emphasis on being my true self, and being as unique as possible. I am also constantly feeling people out and searching for people who is on the same "wavelength" I guess you could say. That is few and far between. I have been recognized as very earthy, and eccentric. When I meet another ENFJ, I know it instantly. They seem to have strong Fe and Se, and get along better with feelers. I, however, get along much better with thinkers. (Teehee...NTJ's...*swoon*)
Us fours tend to be interested in dark films/entertainment also. Or anything that is exotic, passionate, etc.
One thing I'm not, is traditionally romantic....That is where I differ from ALL NF's.
Tell me about 3w4 ENTJ's!