I do not get it!! I know this female ENTJ (The Executive) and I'm trying to get to know her better. It's not working! She seems to be shutting me out of her life. I'm not interested in her sexually (I don't want like a "relationship") or at least I don't think so, there's a part of me that is undecided, but for the most part I'm not interested (or am I?) at least not till I get to know her better. Anyway we've been mutual friends for two years, (I've always wanted to get to know her better) and my best friend (Male INTJ) has recently started dating her best friend (Female ISFJ). So I see this as a great opportunity to get to know her (ENTJ) on a more personal level. It's not working. When I talk to her via text she'll talk to me for a bit, then I guess get bored and leave, (not very friendly with her phone?) but then again I tend to ask questions, generally of a philosophical nature, and these might bore her. Over text at least. When we hang out 2 on 2 it's us two and the "lovers" and she seems to be having a great time, but has trouble making follow up events. My theories: one, (and this attribute was on her personality portrait) she gets stresses out with making commitments, especially being pressured by us 3. This is my most likely theory, 2. She's jealous of the lovers and doesn't want to hang out with me and my friend because she loses her friend to him. But I'm very sure she has a lot of fun hanging out with us, or she's just a great actor, a very great, great actor. The rest of the theories don't have enough evidence or aren't plausible enough to be mentioned, however I have thought of the possibility of the ENTJ liking my best friend (INTJ) and it is very very unlikely. Any other theories? Or more evidence supporting my theories? Why she not opening up? Most people do , especially with this amount of effort on my part. Possible variables: She doesn't have a traumatic past. She does have a teensy wincy inferiority complex, to her older sister (I'm the oldest of 3). And there is some religious conflict in her family. If this affects anything. Yeah, please help me out because she's a lot of fun to be with but hard to get together with. I'm writing this on an iPhone so sorry about mistakes, and I can only see a small portion of the screen at a time, so I haven't been reading this through.