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These 2 keep bashing me, anything I say or do is wrong, THEY are the wrong ones, MY ex ISFJ cheats on me, and then expects is to be like Nothing, and my INFJ "frienemy' agrees with her...WTF is wrong with this shit?:angry:
 

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My experience is different. My ISFJ friend can be a tad annoying at times, but nothing terrible.

My INFJ friend is my closest confidante outside of my family. Gives me advice on how non-Ts think and act so I can better lead and manage them. Great as an emotional advisor.
 

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Both of mine fail..My ISFJ takes everything waaaaayyy too personal

And my INFJ has me categorized as he calls it...Level 5 threat....LOL :laughing:
 

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These 2 keep bashing me, anything I say or do is wrong, THEY are the wrong ones, MY ex ISFJ cheats on me, and then expects is to be like Nothing, and my INFJ "frienemy' agrees with her...WTF is wrong with this shit?:angry:
1st question: how can someone who is an ex be cheating on you? like how is that even possible? xD

2nd question: so what is it that you do to piss them off? :tongue:
 

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1st question: how can someone who is an ex be cheating on you? like how is that even possible?

LOL Obviously she did it when she was still with me, keep in mind I have kids with this female...and yes my kid was there when I caught her

2nd question: so what is it that you do to piss them off?

Simple...they wanna call me evil and fucked up...SO ILL Act that way towards them LOL...Ill mindfuck em all the way through LOL:laughing:
 

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These 2 keep bashing me, anything I say or do is wrong, THEY are the wrong ones, MY ex ISFJ cheats on me, and then expects is to be like Nothing, and my INFJ "frienemy' agrees with her...WTF is wrong with this shit?:angry:
To suggest such behaviour to be type-specific is moronic? Maybe you just need new "friends"?
 

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im not saying its type specific, im just stating their type for reference, and yeah i agree...I do need new friends after such things huh?
 

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True question is..Who do ya agree with?? Me or them?
Because we are obviously working with the complete and unbiased story told from everyone's point of view right now...
 

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These 2 keep bashing me, anything I say or do is wrong, THEY are the wrong ones, MY ex ISFJ cheats on me, and then expects is to be like Nothing, and my INFJ "frienemy' agrees with her...WTF is wrong with this shit?:angry:
Your first mistake was dating an SJ. WTF were you thinking? Don't respond to that, I already know the answer - you weren't. :|
 

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I didnt Know she was a SJ till after the whole BS unraveled ....At first she was soooooooo like me...we had sooo much in common and what not....but as time passed...shit started to change!
 

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ISFJ and INFJ is like night and day to me..

I've always clashed with ISFJ's at work and school, and don't have any as friends. In contrast, I get along great with INFJ's, and have happily dated 3 of them.
 

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These 2 keep bashing me, anything I say or do is wrong, THEY are the wrong ones, MY ex ISFJ cheats on me, and then expects is to be like Nothing, and my INFJ "frienemy' agrees with her...WTF is wrong with this shit?:angry:
sh is probably bias toward your ex, we are both logical and emotional, we gravitate toward the one we are closer too etc, for example if one of my mates cheated on their girlfriend......... id kick them in the face?

ok bad example........i dunno why your friend did that, probably either dosent know the situation well enough or is just being stubborn, who knows we usually go for the underdog and the innocent one, unless of course the break up was very rough and you said or did something that make the INFJ go to the ex's side
 
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LOL "Frienemy" <--- can I steal that? lol

INFJ: Filter out the nonsense and you'll get along. I've noticed that they pick loyalties. Apparently, you're not who he chose. It's chill listening to them talk about their lavish romantic ideas sometimes. From my experience, they are very good at getting your back in real time scenerios--- what comes out of their mouths are sometimes things I wouldn't use but they mean well.

ISFJ: Don't know any but I went out with an ESFJ and well I wanted to sock him plenty. He brought out the "Darker side of an ENTJ" and yes he cheated on me too.
 

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sh is probably bias toward your ex, we are both logical and emotional, we gravitate toward the one we are closer too etc, for example if one of my mates cheated on their girlfriend......... id kick them in the face?
That's the truth. The INFJ friend I have told me she had my back even though she met the INTP first. The INTP was the ESFP's best friend so her loyalties should have been with the INTP. Anyway, she said she had connected with me more than she did the other so, it was my back that she would defend if an arguement ever insued b/w the INTP and I.
 

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Lol, so it's common for ENTJs to disagree with ISFJs? Me and one of the ENTJs I know worked together over the summer with an ISFJ as our boss. While I simply found her annoying, it was hilarious how the two of them clashed, at least to me, anyway. She once held a two-hour informative lecture on ecology which mostly was biased bullshit (what she said, anyway; I can consider ecologist views logical but this was just pure BS), and he spent half of that time slaughtering her arguments and getting her increasingly redder in the face while I drank homemade smoothie. Good times.

As for who I side with in this story... well. Your completely unbiased and detailed description of the events has already won me over, but throw in a smoothie and we have a deal:laughing:
 
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