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What's with the ENTPs need to play games? And why do you play them? And when do you decide to stop? Do you need a reaction from us to satisfy your need to win? And if we give you that, will you stop playing games and get on with it? Or you're just playing them because they can be played?
I'm currently in a game with another ENTP. At least...I think it's a game. I just want to know when it's going to end. And what I have to do to make him stop playing games and make him do something about it? Game playing is only fun for a little bit. Then it gets annoying and boring. It's like being stuck in a mud pit in Candyland. My ENTP likes to say absolutely nothing to me, then will wait for me to say something, then will flirt like crazy with me, then will stop. He used to walk me to my car, take me to lunch, and hang around me, but now there's some sudden distance (probably b/c of me and my inability to start conversation). We don't text, we hardly talk anymore, but there's this stink in the room and it's pretty obvious. I'm not sure if he's watching me, or if this is part of this stupid game.
Also, my best friend is also an INFP and in a game with my ENTPs best friend who is also an ENTP (weird...i know). What does it mean when he texts her things like "It's boring without you around" but then ignores her the next day? Her situation is opposite. He'll talk to her all the time, ask her to breakfast, get coffee with her, text her all the time, spent time making her birthday gift, and then opts out for the friend zone. WTF does this mean?!
And if an ENTP is looking for attention, should we give it to them? Or continue to play our version of the game "you're an asshole" and ignore them? What's going to make them go from "girl who i can play the game with" to "shit I've met my match, can't let that one go"?
I'd like some answers. You guys are confusing as fuck.:frustrating:
then again, i could get off my idealistic rocker and realize that it is just game playing. but i'd like to hear some ENTP oppinions first.
I'm currently in a game with another ENTP. At least...I think it's a game. I just want to know when it's going to end. And what I have to do to make him stop playing games and make him do something about it? Game playing is only fun for a little bit. Then it gets annoying and boring. It's like being stuck in a mud pit in Candyland. My ENTP likes to say absolutely nothing to me, then will wait for me to say something, then will flirt like crazy with me, then will stop. He used to walk me to my car, take me to lunch, and hang around me, but now there's some sudden distance (probably b/c of me and my inability to start conversation). We don't text, we hardly talk anymore, but there's this stink in the room and it's pretty obvious. I'm not sure if he's watching me, or if this is part of this stupid game.
Also, my best friend is also an INFP and in a game with my ENTPs best friend who is also an ENTP (weird...i know). What does it mean when he texts her things like "It's boring without you around" but then ignores her the next day? Her situation is opposite. He'll talk to her all the time, ask her to breakfast, get coffee with her, text her all the time, spent time making her birthday gift, and then opts out for the friend zone. WTF does this mean?!
And if an ENTP is looking for attention, should we give it to them? Or continue to play our version of the game "you're an asshole" and ignore them? What's going to make them go from "girl who i can play the game with" to "shit I've met my match, can't let that one go"?
I'd like some answers. You guys are confusing as fuck.:frustrating:
then again, i could get off my idealistic rocker and realize that it is just game playing. but i'd like to hear some ENTP oppinions first.