. . . or just brood in a corner with drink while the catbox overflows and the kid eats your cigarette butts and you fail to mention we're being sued . . .Okay, well no more hatin' on my peeps or I'll bust a cap in your ass.:tongue:
HOLY SHIT! I don't think this happened cause your ex-wife was INFP, she just sounds flat out stupid and completely neglectful, like maybe she wasn't all there mentally? Please don't think all INFPs are like this, we're not, at least I'm not.. . . or just brood in a corner with drink while the catbox overflows and the kid eats your cigarette butts and you fail to mention we're being sued . . .
BUT. . . . I digress . . . . :tongue: :laughing:
Agreed. She sounds like an extremely unhealthy INFP and not a very good person to boot. I admit we have our problems, like what has already been touched on in this thread, but there has to be something very wrong if we act like that.HOLY SHIT! I don't think this happened cause your ex-wife was INFP, she just sounds flat out stupid and completely neglectful, like maybe she wasn't all there mentally? Please don't think all INFPs are like this, we're not, at least I'm not.
Spot on. I can talk about the most insensitive things but then there's that one, tiny thing that gets to me.You all are so easy to offend, and it's always the weirdest things. We can joke about the holocaust or slavery or killing one another's grandparents because they're old anyway, but then some tiny, microscopic comment will be made and first you get quiet. I know you're thinking about it, trying to rationalize it, but it doesn't work and then next comes the question of whether or not I really believe that, I don't take your concern seriously enough, you get pissy.
Very similar to my mother who l've thought must be INFP for awhile.My mom is an INFP. And she and i can have great debates, but she is a much better talker than listener. She never listens to a word I say and doesn't care. In fact, if I talk about myself too much she just started talking about herself and telling me no one cares what I'm talking about. Yet, she can be SOOOO sensitive herself. She has a poor self image and refuses to hear anything negative about herself in fear it will leave her shattered. When she is hurt, she starts throwing daggers.
The other INFP I know is sweet, but she is so depressed a lot of the time. I can appreciate her imagination and deep thoughts. However, she is so lost in her head sometimes and unaware of how she affects the people around her. I would say she's a INFP 4, 9, (not sure her third) And it's so glaringly so even though she's only nine!
I know this is an old post but i felt the need to reply. Not all INFP's are warm and loving, we can be for certain people, but only people who share our values and morals. I speak for myself, i can be a real bitch if someone offends me or my beliefs. I definitely have a dark side.An ENTP I know just married an INFP a week ago. He says he really likes what she is doing with her career, that she is individualistic, and also her style and looks (she works as a designer and has a keen eye for color). What he doesn't like is that he says she is "very simple". I asked him to explain what he means by it and he said that he would have liked someone who kind of had more of a plan going and someone who would have messed with his mind a bit occasionally. I guess she is too open and loving for his taste, if there is such a thing. He is probably longing for some sort of dark side making an appearance and INFPs are too warm for it. I advised him to never debate with her about stuff that she feels is wrong, because in my experience with INFPs that kind of debate just does not work.