I have been married to an INFJ for 7 years and he is by far the most complex human being I have ever met. I'm an Entp and I try to figure everything out an he's been quite a challenge. I have been researching the Enneagram type 4w3 and I think it fits his profile well. My question is are you guys very competitive? I noticed that every time I get recognized for something my husband tries to out do me or turn it back to him. When the kids are praising me he gets so envious. It is very confusing to me because I thought INFJ's were meant to be well-intentioned individuals. Any thoughts?