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I am an esfj, and my best friend is an intj. I have read that the esfj and intj is a duality couple, meaning it is the best relationship. However, sometimes I feel like I need my intj friend more than she needs me. Is this true? I feel like she doesn't care for me as much, because she doesnt share her emotions or ever shares how she feels about me. I always tell her how I feel, because I want her to know I appreciate our her and our friendship. She saves messages from me saying how much I appreciate her and she also saves silly little letters I write her, but sometimes I just don't feel like she really needs or wants me, and it can be hurtful.
 

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Well, actually, in MBTI it's not a duality relation. It would be, if your friend was an INTP or if you were an ESFP.

Welcome, by the way. Are you sure you posted this thread in a right place? If you need advice, I'd say the best place is an INTJ forum. :)
 

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Here's a link to the INTJ forum. For future reference, just click the "Personality Cafe" logo in the top left hand corner of your screen and scroll down -- there's an entire list of all the different subsections of the forum. Welcome, by the way!
 
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@dz1902 if you're talking about socionics duality then that would be an ESE (ESFj) with LII (INTj), but in MBTI that would be closer to ESFJ-INTP.

May I also recommend the socionics subforum, you could ask all your questions about duality there Socionics Forum

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