I wanted to know what our INTP members thought of our exact opposites, the ESFJs.
I was about to write about that. Most of the ESFJs really seem to think much about themselves. And you don't just get that image from them, many of them like to even tell that to the whole world!? Like posting "oh I'm so gooood, there's no better than me" posts in social groups or something. That's the main reason I don't like them, I've never thought they're particularly cool in things. It's hard to deal with them, if you try to be nice and reason things for them, in the same time. I can't understand how someone thinks (s)he's cool by doing something just because everyone does so... For example, my ESFJ friend thinks her name is very cool because it's the most popular one here and she'd like if every other one would have the same name as her.ESFJs seem to think they're better than everyone else. My mom, for instance, loves to flame my hair but has a goddamned blonde afro, pretty much... because every other backwards ******* woman in these parts has the same style. To me, blonde afros on women are terrifying –*not my own hair.
I can't imagine me and an ESFJ staying under the same roof. Let alone two.My ESFJ mom is constantly complaining about my hair. It's "terrible", she says. A few minutes ago she claimed it makes me look "scary" or some jive like that. When trying to prove a point, she uses "everyone else" and did so for hair, claiming that everyone else at college didn't have hair like mine.
Why doesn't she get that I'm not everyone else and like my own hair? Jesus shit, I'm 20, it's not like I'm a rebellious teen with ass-length blue hair or some shit...
All ESFJs seem to be much the same, with my ESFJ biological mother agreeing on my hair. No one else cares, I've noticed.
My 14 year old ESFJ sister frequently refers to me as "weird", when amongst my group of friends (namely ESTJ and INTJ) find her "weird", "ugly", "idiotic", and "immature."
ESFJs seem to think they're better than everyone else. My mom, for instance, loves to flame my hair but has a goddamned blonde afro, pretty much... because every other backwards ******* woman in these parts has the same style. To me, blonde afros on women are terrifying –*not my own hair.
Fuck ESFJs. I hope they all get terminal ass cancer at once. :dry:
Technically, I was adopted by my grandparents... who are now mom and dad... and they're both ESFx. Mom's a J, dad's a P.I can't imagine me and an ESFJ staying under the same roof. Let alone two.
My thoughts on ESFJs.. I can sense them from quite a distance, and usually manifests as a headache.
They are alright in short bursts of time, but not more than a minute.