Is that really the sorts of things people are saying about ESFPs around here? Such a shame!
I'm a bit ignorant of such misunderstandings due to the rarity of my excursions outside the turtle shell that is the INFJ forum.
Don't worry, ESFPs...you all are good in my book. Without the ESFP type, I would not have my lovable ESFP friend/established horrible-sci-fi-movie buddy. With whom I've had many a deep conversation. And who rarely drinks alcohol. And who is perhaps unselfish to a fault. And who understands that deep-seated fascination with crappy CG graphics in movies involving mutated, blood-thirsty animal fusions and casts that include washed-up 80s pop stars.
Full of win, guys. Totally full of win.