So ESFP's and I kind of have a love/ hate relationship, so bear with me. My sister represents the darker side of the ESFP for me, but that is due in large part to her being somebody who suffers from bi-polar disorder. On the lighter side, I have one of my best friends who is an ESFP and I admire his ability to not talk badly or hold grudges against anybody. However, there is a trend with both of them with regards to bad dating choices. My sister has been in a relationship with a fairly questionable guy for the past 8 months but has broken up and gotten back together with him 6 times in that span. My friend has been in at least 8 relationships in his life (he's 19) and he always seems to pick women that aren't good for him or turn out to be a little... emotionally unstable. When I confront him about this he hears me out and acknowledges his poor decision making, however he insists that he will keep on dating even after I recommend that he stay single for a while. Both of them seem to need to be in relationships even if it may not be the best thing for them. What are some of your experiences with dating and what is your mindset in looking for a potential boyfriend/girlfriend?