Personally I'm looking for a best friend who I can talk to about anything. Someone who doesn't mind talking about our days, our emotions, or gossip and talking about the stupid shit that comes to our minds. I love it when a girl really enjoys my company, it makes me feel useful and loved when we spend a lot of time together smiling, laughing and having fun. I want a lot of attention because I'm going to be giving a lot of it. I usually hate spending days alone. So I'm pretty clingy. I want to be someone special in their lives... (im an ennagram 9) Most esfp's i hear tend to be 7's I think.what do boy esfp's look for in a girl?
what do they dislike in a girl/relationships?
and how do you know if they're interested?
do they like enfj's?
etc. etc. etc.
I'm pretty sure everyone who reads this is saying "Of course he's going to keep talking about himself, hes an esfp"If you don't mind, I'd like to pick your brain some more? If not, that's okay too
Yes, I would much rather be working than going to school. I can be a workaholic because I DO like money. Most people think that because we suck at school, that we suck at life. But I like working because I see value in work, its easy to gauge how well you are doing and I get paid in something tangible that I can use right away.tonysayshi: Gasp. There aren't many ESFPs in the forum.
Me: its because esfp don't want to make topics
Me: they would rather people just ask about them
Me: so they can talk about themselves
I'd kill to be with an ENFJ or... infj both are pretty dreamy, loving, and caring. I like a girl who isn't always so soft though, Sometimes its awesome for a girl to be angry and agressive/ opinionated.talon235! you rock! and thaaaaank you for sharing so much information. this has made me feel a million times better, seriously...no joke even if the ESFP that i'm into now doesn't work out, I'm pretty certain that I would kill to be with an ESFP <3 you guys are most definitely my favorite type! The more I get to know about you the more smitten I become!
I've had this thrown at me before by an ENFJ I was involved with. "I can't see myself being with someone so much like my father, someone who works all the time, and never has time to spend it with me"l.... work comes first for him and i dont know how i feel about that in my relationships....
Why not tell them how you feel before you ask them?If I like someone, who I'm pretty sure I have a shot at, I'm pretty straight forward. You will get a lot of attention from me, and at some point, I'm going to ask how you feel about me, and what am I to you? Then whether you like it or not, I'm going to let you know how I feel about you and why I think we would be great together.
Well, sometimes I do, and sometimes I don't. It really depends on the situation and how responsive the girl is to flirting. I wasn't really thinking about it in detail at the time...Why not tell them how you feel before you ask them?
Umm when I say or do something like this. I mean it. You are over analyzing for sure.i will always ask him questions about what he meant by something and he'll usually say 'well, what do you think'....and then whatever i say he's usually like, 'yeah, that's it.'