my ESFP husband told me he loved me the second time we hung out. (Granted he was drunk.) But I think they can have a tendency to voice all of their feelings, vs me who tends to keep them under lock and key. It's refreshing, and it makes me more comfortable expressing those feelings as well. There is some serious earnestness to him, which is nice. He says what he means and wholeheartedly means what he says.A weird thing that happened... things kind of got hot and heavy between us, and afterward he said he loved me (this was only our second meeting..). I realized it was in a platonic sense, and I didn't get creeped out because I often wish I could tell people I loved them without them taking it the wrong way. I love most people in a platonic sense, or in one way or another. But it makes me think that maybe he's an NF? Or am I right with SF? It was actually quite nice to hear since I usually feel like telling everyone I love them, but it was also very odd because that never happens!!