Hi,
I am an ESTJ and I am involved in a emotional affair with another ESTJ.:sad:
When everything started I was happily single then I met him. It all started as friendship with a work colleague and nothing more.
Now we are involved in an emotional affair and I just met someone very nice.
I would like to end the affair (easier said than done). As a ESTJ I know this is wrong and that if it carries on I will end up getting hurt (some website talk about depression) and I hate the rollercoaster of emotions that comes with it. Every week is a big drama. My life was so simple before. Also I would like it to work out with my new boyfriend.
I feel like intoxicated by a drug and I am at the stage where I know things are getting out of control and I need to go to rehab. The problem is that I cannot just walk in a hospital and ask for help.
All the help I found online is directed towards the couple and telling them how to get rid of me, but nowhere I find how to get rid of him.
If anyone has had the same experience please get in touch if you can help.
Thanks
I am an ESTJ and I am involved in a emotional affair with another ESTJ.:sad:
When everything started I was happily single then I met him. It all started as friendship with a work colleague and nothing more.
Now we are involved in an emotional affair and I just met someone very nice.
I would like to end the affair (easier said than done). As a ESTJ I know this is wrong and that if it carries on I will end up getting hurt (some website talk about depression) and I hate the rollercoaster of emotions that comes with it. Every week is a big drama. My life was so simple before. Also I would like it to work out with my new boyfriend.
I feel like intoxicated by a drug and I am at the stage where I know things are getting out of control and I need to go to rehab. The problem is that I cannot just walk in a hospital and ask for help.
All the help I found online is directed towards the couple and telling them how to get rid of me, but nowhere I find how to get rid of him.
If anyone has had the same experience please get in touch if you can help.
Thanks