The object of my affection happens to be an ESTJ. There is a very intense attraction/pull to one another that is mutual. He is everything that I am looking for, but there seems to constantly be a hesitation to pursue anything serious. I don't know if it is common for ESTJ men to be afraid of serious/romantic relationships. I also understand that you can't base compatibility solely on personality type. What I would like to know is "what are ESTJ's take on INFP's", "What can you tell me about the relationship/dynamic" and "How can I learn to better communicate with him?". Thanks in advance!