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ESTJ's and cheating

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ESTJ's, what are your views and thought about cheating?

I have an ESTJ friend who seems to keep his gf a secret and is always flirting with the ladies and has even made some advances at a friend or two, yet when you ask about the way he thinks, he says he's very loyal and is just 'friendly'..

just wondering if there is a correlation with his type or if it's just HIM because i thought ESTJ's are very boundaries- based and usually have a high ethical compass..
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ESTJs are very flirtatious because we're confident and friendly people. But when we're bound in a relationship, we are mostly very loyal. Even though we are flirtatious, we know our limit and won't cross it.

To be honest, IRL and online, there are many guys who thinks that I like them or have a crush on them, while the truth is I was just joking around with them.

Example, I was talking about the guy I have a crush on to to a male friend. When I was talking, my friend just looked at me with a blank stare. I said what's going on?
He said: "Nothing. I just... I used to think that you had a crush on me."
And I was like: "Whaaaa....???" :shocked:

That situation happens ALL the time. Seriously. :frustrating:

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