Yep, they seldom answer my questions. I think we are do different I can never find a topic that interest both of us. They are my complete opposites and I have the hardest time understanding them but I love them anyway.
Not trying to be critical here, but just to give you some pointers in dealing with asking STJs questions. Give details, explain why you want to know it (your motivation), and try to ask in a way that isn't so open. STJs don't like abstract ideas and general questions. We just don't' think that way.
If you asked the same question and then below it gave some bullet points or something I bet you would get better reposes. Also, this ESTJ forum seems to be pretty slow. All these ESTJs must be out being extroverted IRL
