From some of the comments I've seen, it would seem that the ESTP male is good with the ISTJ women. Just an observation.I find it hard to believe that our natural partners are ISTJs. They piss me off with black and white thinking and close mindedness. I would be all over another ESTP!
This happened with my INFJ, we definitley had big-time J/P conflicts.ISTJs are the perfect partner for us but the more J they are and the more P you are it will lead to problems.
It will try you, I agree. I am fairly balanced P/J (52% = P / 48% = J) so your point is interesting about being on one end of the spectrum or another as being relevant in surviving such conflicts...So if you are really P you probably won't want to put in the work needed for the relationship to survive.
This kills me too. I do not like it when people near nad dear to me start "ghosting" or being not present. It's like a death in the family, no warning, just all of a sudden they are gone...but they are right in fornt of you. Arrghhh!!!Although I must say she can frustrate me rather easily if she goes into no talk mode when upset. :sad:
Haaa! That's one way of putting it!I need to know everything!:laughing:
Most of the time this is true, sometimes we have to get past a few stereotypes, but all in all I have enjoyed all of my lady chasing experiences profoundly. We know how to get people laughing, and that helps break the ice. There's nothing more fun than romance, it is one of life's central missions that must be successfully mastered. To me anyway. roud:The ESTP man has it much easier because all women love a daring, confident, competitive, charming manly-man.