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I've noticed that a lot of ESFP and a lot of ESTP women that are gold diggers. What are your thoughts on this?
 

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Well, it'd be better if they were more driven to self-sufficiency, but I can't exactly hate them for their practical approach.
 

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I've noticed that a lot of ESFP and a lot of ESTP women that are gold diggers. What are your thoughts on this?
Do you also think these woman are generally the most attractive and feminine of the types?
 

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Do you also think these woman are generally the most attractive and feminine of the types?
Yes, for the most part this is what I have observed; they do tend to be the most attractive women in general. The ESFP women tend to be the most femine of all the types to me. The ESTP women tend to be the stereotypical "bad girls" that drive men wild. However I've met many ISTP's and ISFP's that are really hot as well. I remember when I used to be into body building, the gym seemed to be more dominated by people of the SP temperment than any of the other temperments.
 

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I don't see any correlation between attractiveness and type. As for "gold digging", I think only women with low self-esteem would do that, because it demeans them.
 

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I don't see any correlation between attractiveness and type. As for "gold digging", I think only women with low self-esteem would do that, because it demeans them.
I've seen hot women of every type. This is true.
 

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I know an ESFP woman who married because she was "tired of being poor".

She has a career of her own, but after growing up in poverty, she knew she wanted a man who could provide her with a comfortable lifestyle.

Funny thing, though, her SJ husband seems even more materialistic than she is. He even refers to her as his trophy wife.
 

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I always thought ESFJ's were the gold diggers. My statement is backed up by the 3 I know in person, in which the only words I've heard emanated from their mouths were: "wow you guys are loaded," "You have so much money!" and "you're a cheap skate."
 

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I always thought ESFJ's were the gold diggers. My statement is backed up by the 3 I know in person, in which the only words I've heard emanated from their mouths were: "wow you guys are loaded," "You have so much money!" and "you're a cheap skate."
Firstly, you know them in person and those are the only words you've ever heard them say, ever?

Secondly, ESFJ is very common in women and therefore it is very hard to generalise about such a group.
 

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My ESTP girlfriend could care less about how much money I have. My ESFP ex is much the same.

We're taking stereotypes a little too far. And that's saying something for you bunch.
 

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nahh i dont think this is true at all. well not that i speak for every ESTP but i couldnt be with someone just becasue they have money. who cares? i make damn good money on my own. i dont need his. of course everyone wants to be stable and be able to live as stress free as possible, but i have never in my life sought out a guy who had money. theres more to a guy than their bank account. like the size of their .....:tongue: lol
 

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*sigh* I'd never do such a thing. I don't exactly have the best self-esteem and I find the act itself is demeaning.
 

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I would have thought Sjs are more likely to be this way particularly esfj, of course it's not all esfj a just unhealthy ones but is say esfj esfp estp isfj istp in my experience been the most like this. Least likely I'd say infj!
 
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