yup, ive had this problem all my life.
It has also created difficulties in some of my relationships. Let me explain (Apologies in advance for the long story). I had a male friend from college ( who i am sure was an ENTP, but i will never know for sure lol). He was a really good friend of mine and we spent alot of time hanging out. He indicated to me on several occasions that he wanted to be more than freinds. I was ANXIOUS about doing somethingabout it, and decided to ignore the vibe i was getting.
After several years (lol) of our friendship ( and the continuous chasing by him) i plucked up the courage to say i didnt have romantic feelings for him. After my "confession" to him he still pursued...
This used to piss me off so much, but because i didnt want confrontation or hurt his feelings, i didnt say anything.
Eventually I stopped speaking to him. It was tricky because we were close friends but i alwaysknew i didnt have feelings for him.
Over the years I have also learnt that TACT can be very usefull in dealing with some people.