Can you guys share your experience with ESTJs? Especially.... romantically? I've been noticing that a certain ESTJ has been spending a lot of time observing me. I don't know what he thinks about me, but I feel a sense of security and being guarded when I know he is watching me. And in your experiences with ESTJs, what do you think attracted them to you? What caught their eyes about you? What did they/do they appreciate about you?