I used to see guys with girls that were always pouting, throwing hissy fits, making the guy pay for everything, talking babyish and acting all ditzy.
And I used to think, is this how I have to act to be attactive? These girls always have boyfriends.
Surely there are guys out there, that appreciate nice, easy-going, intelligent, fair girls like me? These are things that I like about myself, I don't want to change into a bratty pouting princess >_<
But finally I've met my first ENFP, and I feel that he appreciates all these things about myself that I like. And really, I wouldn't want to date a guy that puts up with someone that cannot communicate reasonably and needs to pout all the time to get their way.
I realise now, that the guys that wouldn't give me a chance, were honestly not my type. Your type would love the things that you love about yourself, and it would be easy for them to see it. They wouldn't need to date you to see this.