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I don't think there are wrong types, only inappropriate for your demands. Well, there were many questions but I believe you already know the answers, you just want someone to confirm you are right. Everyone needs that someone to make sense of life; it's just as important as pursuing your personal missions, indeed this is one of the personal missions. I mean, you search for someone primarily because you want yourself to feel good, not the other one, so to a certain point it is your challenge to behalf on your heart-felt balance: your game, your rules.