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Ok, so the title speaks for itself - almost. Which is better and why? Do you feel fantasy is the 'real' you but you are just afraid to show it? And...is fantasy only alluring because of the unknown factor? Has anyone tried to live their fantasy? Was it successfull or a total failure?
 

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Yes, I have lived several fantasies. I have often found the fantasy not to live up to expectations when realized. The best way to screw up a good fantasy is to live it.
 

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They say some fantasies are just that, fantasies. Personally, I tend to think that's not real, because we are aroused by things that truely excite us. But, for example, being raped, which is something that arouses me much. Really, I'm not sure I would like to be truely raped...
 

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We are forced to play the game of reality so it's pointless to fight against it.

logic helps you cope and keeps you alive but logic is not fun.

fantasy makes life enjoyable but fantasy is dangerous.

A balance of both is necessary.

The reality is that life sucks and the only enjoyable things we can really do involve attempting to defy logic. Through the form of love or fantasy.

That's why humans are obsessed with relationships and media.

Without this attempt at rejecting logic, we would all be a species of robot like animals. and many cultures around the world prove that we have that potential.
 

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I think some things are better left inside my head, and there are many things. I can call on them for delicious thoughts now and then, otherwise reality is all I need.
 

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Fantasy= Porn
Reality = Making Porn
 

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The middle way is philosophical prized lifestyle and it should apply to this.

I vote for in between. I like fantasy as much as reality.
I can derive pleasure from both. I play along with fantasy and I am solid in reality, right in the middle.
 
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