I would consider myself a typical INFJ, not only due to my test results, yet the results gave me a clearer understanding of some personality traits that I couldnt understand or accept in the past. So, I would like to know about similar struggles from fellow INFJs and how you deal with them! The most obvious one of mine is that I fullblown overthink everything up to the point where I enter the "paralized-zone" not being able to do much anymore for days or even weeks. I moved back to my small hometown about a year ago after living in a major city on a different continent, and I never wanted to return here, but had to. Most friends have moved on, me trying to make new ones, feeling trapped here due to a different, conservative mentality and having to adapt to fit in. Having good, hopeful days and then really bad ones being deeply in my thoughts, overhinking and withdrawing as not even the hobbies done by most here match my former way of living whatsoever. Even though I am grateful for the new people I ve met, I dont ever feel understood by anybody with my deep thoughts and interests for example in self-development and the regular small talk just drives me crazy, so I feel very alone right now. On top of that I am the great listener and empath that is always strong for everyone, because I know I can and thats what I do, yet most people are not like that and only listen for a short period of time before being distracted and I ve just had it. I started withdrawing and rejecting hangouts because I just dont feel it anymore, I am not too satisfied with the interactions on a deeper level and asking myself now if I have to find again new friends to feel satisfied and yes I just pitty myself and I am tired and dont feel like being strong anymore to make a new life for myself. Plus it doesnt help not having a partner on my side for support as I believe anyways that I might not find the perfect guy for me who truly gets me. Feeling hopless and not knowing what to do with myself. Thanks to all of You for listening.