Discovering the MBTI changed my life a few years ago. I consider myself to be very socially handicapped, and I have been known to say that I don't like people in general. It has helped me soooo much to study this subject. For example, my ISTJ mother doesn't look for things to gripe about, she actually sees the things that are out of place. It makes a big difference when you can understand where someone is coming from. I'm still learning, and I'm glad to be here.