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Geez, I wonder why I name myself lonelyinfj. :dry:
On the serious side, I was struggling with this awhile back but it has improved a lot though I'm not sure how. I know that people won't ever "get me" but I find it okay since I'm focusing more on building relations with people, and I hope through those relations it will build a more fruitful friendship thus fruitful conversations will happen. I try not to rely on first contact since it's such a discouraging thing to false hope that they will get it because it won't happen for them right away. Connecting with people varies just as people are different.
On the serious side, I was struggling with this awhile back but it has improved a lot though I'm not sure how. I know that people won't ever "get me" but I find it okay since I'm focusing more on building relations with people, and I hope through those relations it will build a more fruitful friendship thus fruitful conversations will happen. I try not to rely on first contact since it's such a discouraging thing to false hope that they will get it because it won't happen for them right away. Connecting with people varies just as people are different.
