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Here's the deal: I will be 10x more comfortable around someone if they are a guy rather than a girl. I guess I find it more difficult to connect with girls because instinctively I just know that we are much less likely to have something in common. This isn't them, this is me: I have no 'girly' interests whatsoever -
I don't give a shit about fashion.
I don't give a shit about which celebrity did what.
I especially don't give a shit about which celebrity is dating which (you people are aware that you're obsessing over people exchanging bodily fluids, right???)
I don't have the patience to squeal and act really excited to see someone, even if I do happen to like them.
I don't have the patience for people who squeal nonstop.
I'm not a great hugger.
Overall, I just suck at being a girl. And yes, I know that not every girl is like that, and yes, if I do know we have something in common then the conversation does get easier. However, part of me thinks that I don't try to make friends with girls because I have a history of being fucked over when I have made friends with them; idk, I guess I feel safer when I make friends with a guy than I do a girl (even if they are 'feelers').
Anyone else here feel this way?
I don't give a shit about fashion.
I don't give a shit about which celebrity did what.
I especially don't give a shit about which celebrity is dating which (you people are aware that you're obsessing over people exchanging bodily fluids, right???)
I don't have the patience to squeal and act really excited to see someone, even if I do happen to like them.
I don't have the patience for people who squeal nonstop.
I'm not a great hugger.
Overall, I just suck at being a girl. And yes, I know that not every girl is like that, and yes, if I do know we have something in common then the conversation does get easier. However, part of me thinks that I don't try to make friends with girls because I have a history of being fucked over when I have made friends with them; idk, I guess I feel safer when I make friends with a guy than I do a girl (even if they are 'feelers').
Anyone else here feel this way?