Hi Mikeus,So, my ESFP friends, how do I win the heart of an ESFP girl? Besides the usual stuff, what should, and shouldn't, I do?
This ^^^^^ Is well done!Buy her a pony
Show as much enthusiasm for the things in both yours and her lives as she does
Touch base with her internal emotions, ESFP's are emotional people, it's just understaged by everything else.
Even though they often prefer to be very spread out socially because it energizes them, they do like to have deep connections with their best friends or SO's, the people who they can really call their most meaningful friends that they can share their inner most thoughts with that they would otherwise not be able to with their numerous acquaintances.
As an INFP who has an ESFP girl as one of his best friends I can tell you this, you don't have to be enthusiastic about going panty shopping with her, you just have to not look like you don't want to be there. All they want is someone to share their enjoyment of life with.