At least every other day, with a toy or two...maybe with a third. Sometimes two or three times a day a few days straight depending on the stage of my ovulation cycle. Although that was when I was celibate. Now that I'm in a relationship, I refrain from masturbating as much as possible to retain my sensitivity. When that seems absolutely unbearable, every two or three days I don't have access to my boyfriend, then I rub a rose bud.
TMI ahead. This is gonna sound crazy and confusing coming from an asexual, but...
I normally masturbate a few times a week. To kinks. I don't have a drive that makes me seek out porn, but when I went through a brief "experimentation" period (at the recommendation of my boyfriend) to see if there was anything I liked, I did enjoy hentai. Even though I found no attraction to the characters, I enjoy a nice kink-filled sci-fi/fantasy scenario. The more bizarre, "creative" and detached from real life, the better. And sometimes its just plain absurdly comical and impossible to take seriously, so it gets some laughs out of me. Its generally kind of amusing in a depraved kind of way. And, some of the art in of itself was actually quite aesthetically nice, so it appeals to my inner art major. But other than kink imagination fuel, porn is useless for me. I can tolerate drawn or animated porn (i still prefer no nudity and no grossly detailed close-ups whenever possible) but the sight of a normal real human body engaged in real world sex is repulsive to me. In any case I still have zero desire to ever engage in sex with anyone or to try to reenact my kinky fantasies.
Everyday. Generally only once, I literally don't have time to do more with work and school :-(
Kinks? Public places. I definitely started experimenting on the crowded train while I lived in Japan. The trains here are not quite crowded enough. I used to in my reallly boring statistics class but after a classmate caught me, I kinda thought about if it had been someone else and I started overthinking about being expelled lol. Also I like public places but I don't want people to actually see.
Depends.. If I'm having something going on with a person and we are not having sex yet, then do it yourself is a good tool But it gives me more desire to masturbate and while doing so thinking about my crush..
But it is a challenge with a roommate, I'm afraid that it will be noticed, and I don't have that sort of fantasies, so it is easier when I'm home alone..
But it varies from a few times a week to once a months.. If in the right mood, alone and with time available then a few times a day..
* If I'm doing no-fap on purpose for a period of time.
* My hormones/cycle. Some weeks are intense-r than others.
I practice no-fap whenever I'm trying to focus on a very important goal that needs my aggression and intensity. Works amazingly. The first day is always the hardest.
Apart from that, depends on hormones. Some weeks it's twice a day and some weeks it's once every two days.
What about? Random men. Some I know, some I've never talked to but we see each other from a distance. Mostly it's the men I do know. I'm never sexually attracted to these men irl, and I would never in a million years go out with them, much less let them touch me. There's a very clear separation between "reality" and fantasies. In fantasies I just like to explore my own mental state, aggression, submission, feelings, body confidence, etc etc and the men are just characters that help me in my self-knowing. Depending on what aspect of myself I'm in the mood to explore, I will choose one man or the other for the scene, depending on what I need from them.