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Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex. Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing. Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk it out.

Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come. Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e, don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special -- and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back -- and move on, without bitterness.
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Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

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I know a lot of "grown women" who date men trying to change them. I don't think that objective changes much with age. Some women just naturally want to try and tailor men to what they desire knowing that they're not going to end up with Brad Pitt. Realism or neurotism. :mellow:

Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
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Well why didn't you call?!?! :dry:

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that that was just one man.
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Especially for me, it's a habit that takes time to grow out of, so I'll agree on that front.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back -- and move on, without bitterness.
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Some 'signs' just aren't that obvious. But I agree with you. Again, something that takes time to work on.
 

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Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex. Grown women know that it's the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

Girls fake-moan, lay there and take the stabbing. Grown women say, "Just stop", get up, get dressed and walk it out.

Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come. Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e, don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special -- and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back -- and move on, without bitterness.
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I agree definitely. Just one thing: you could have replaced "girl" with "bridezilla" and you'd still be 100% correct.
 

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On a side note, I hadn't written this, link and the source are there so can't answer some questions that I feel are directed towards me.
 

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i'd have to go with the grown woman myself.
 

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Some of these are obvious, others are stupid, a few are okay.

The "Grown Woman" sounds just as controlling as the "Girl" in some of these, and kind of like a bitch.
 

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In my opinion there's one single most important difference between a girl and a woman, and from that you can deduct the others :

A girl in most cases will know when a man is not with her in the present moment, and I don't mean the obvious things like looking around, I mean the depth of him, is he feeling her ? is he seeing her as she is ? girls can pick this up pretty quickly even though they might not know how to rationalize them or get the sense of them. A girl will not know what to do with these impressions that she has, these feelings, these intuitions, she will most of the times blame it on him or the circumstances. .

A woman on the other hand will know how to make a man present with her, by feeling into his heart and "knowing" what to offer him in that present moment in order for him to prefer her beauty/radiance instead of his own thoughts/distractions/fears.

I remember a brilliant quote from Deida : "Your feminine radiance has to outshine the TV"
 
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yeah except it's not really an age thing, it's a mental maturity thing, I've met high school girls who were totally cool and knew tons of cool stuff and didn't fall for a lot of dumb, popular things advertised in the world

Some of these are obvious, others are stupid, a few are okay.

The "Grown Woman" sounds just as controlling as the "Girl" in some of these, and kind of like a bitch.
maybe it's a universal thing *puts on flame-retardant underwear*
 
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