Everyone answering needs to define 'romance'. Everyone have a different understand of it.I want to know your opinion, everyone is different and not everyone want the same thing. Is romance important to you? How would you quantify it?
It could mean romance in the traditional sense, intimacy or simply showing that you care about her. As @Deuce said.Everyone answering needs to define 'romance'. Everyone have a different understand of it.
My GF thinks I'm the most romantic guy ever and didn't think such romance could even exist.
When she says that my inner confusion lingers and screams "what the hell is romance then?!" because I've never considered me as a particularly romantic guy and I've always rejected poems, movies, pictures and romantic thoughts. She on the other hand loves reading due to her job, interest and other responsibilities.
Not all but with many men, service is one of their love languages, likely because of impacts of gender roles since they're less equipped with emotional language. If a guy's willing to put himself out for you, he's into you.My stance on romance has changed a lot. I've had guys shower me with diamonds and ish shortly into a relationship, but looking back, it kinda felt like love bombing.
I got sick in late January, and was a little out of it for a few days, lost my phone. My bf literally tore apart a couch, late to work, trying to help me find it.
Through GPS and my history (that I could access from other devices), I knew it had to be somewhere at the house tho.
The day before the trash went out - and we'd checked just about everywhere else - I told him I was gonna wake up at like 5 am (felt too tired and sick to do it that night) and check the trash. We have a bunch of roommates, so it was an undertaking lol.
I'm going through what's already been thrown outside, and he comes down, all bleary eyed, and starts helping (I told him not to!) Then he goes upstairs to grab the present kitchen trash bag. We both agreed that it prob wasn't there - those bags go fast with so many roommates, and I'd lost my phone several days ago... but, he went through it anyway. And FOUND it, lol, at the very bottom. Underneath a plate of nachos I'd tossed. I was kinda dazed at the time, remember talking to a roommate then, and I guess my phone was in the same hand.
I showered him in kisses, and, honestly, it might be the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for me. Going through the trash with me at 5 am lol.
^^Yup^^ My boyfriend subtly would stress the bolded when we first started dating and I would have to agree.Not all but with many men, service is one of their love languages, likely because of impacts of gender roles since they're less equipped with emotional language. If a guy's willing to put himself out for you, he's into you.
His top languages are the same as mine - physical affection and quality time. We have done the more stereotypically romantic stuff too. (Did a couples trip for Valentines Day, for instance, and we filled the room with candles... I'd never really done that before (it was my idea, but he was game for it), and it was romantic).Not all but with many men, service is one of their love languages, likely because of impacts of gender roles since they're less equipped with emotional language. If a guy's willing to put himself out for you, he's into you.