Alright, how would go about getting a INTP to look at their future and take action? I have friend who is, if he continues, going to end being the 30yr still living at home with his parents playing video games. Is there anything I can do to kind of push to avoid this? I'm not trying do whole lot, I just don't want to stay dependent on his parents. I'm not trying to turn him from being an introvert or being an INTP, just give him spark to be more independent and more in tuned to the way his life is going. His GF that called me and asked I help if I could. I'm just looking for things that could help. He's 20, no drivers license, no job, just sitting at home, and having his dad drive him to college. I don't want this to be a well he's introvert it's fine, it is. If you were ever in that place, what made you take initiative to do something with your life or at least start preparing too?