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I realize I'm bitchin' a lot lately, SORRY. But today I was thinking about some things... when it comes to relationships or projects, i feel like I put my ALL into it.... Once I commit, I'm loyal to carrying through and I'd never treat it half-heartedly... And i think this is characteristic of INFJs. We're all in. (we can also be all OUT - infj doorslam). The main point is that we are whole-heartedly dedicated or completely the opposite.
Today i also realized that most people I run into aren't like this... We can be working on something together, for a work or school project, but instead of treating it as a priority, it is something they are committed to half-heartedly and not really loyal to. I just think people should be more loyal and whole-heartedly committed to a certain degree.
So how do you guys deal with this in life? i'm sure we've all had our fair share of meeting flaky people...half-heartedly committed people....people with ulterior motives (insisting on having one foot in and one foot out).... etc... i feel like i need to set my foot down, but i have an internal struggle with this, and i feel like i need to accept people's commitment levels, even though it clashes with my own values? ....i know how i feel about it, but how do you guys deal with things like this?
Today i also realized that most people I run into aren't like this... We can be working on something together, for a work or school project, but instead of treating it as a priority, it is something they are committed to half-heartedly and not really loyal to. I just think people should be more loyal and whole-heartedly committed to a certain degree.
So how do you guys deal with this in life? i'm sure we've all had our fair share of meeting flaky people...half-heartedly committed people....people with ulterior motives (insisting on having one foot in and one foot out).... etc... i feel like i need to set my foot down, but i have an internal struggle with this, and i feel like i need to accept people's commitment levels, even though it clashes with my own values? ....i know how i feel about it, but how do you guys deal with things like this?