ok well dats an interesting topic and certainly there is some truth in it. it all depends on how u define a bad boy. is it the guy workin for the mafia, carryin a gun, hangin out with the bad crowd, abusing others, with the why dont u all go to hell attitude? well in that case, prolly not the best choice

my definition of a bad boy is a guy who knows what he wants in life, works to get it, lives the way he wants to, keeps things in line, grabs the bull by the horns, a strong individual who takes care of and stands up for himself and his family, protects his loved ones, and wont ever get screwed over by others, coz hes not afraid to speak for himself and express his opinion even if its not pleasant to hear.
in that sense yes i am with a estj bad boy and i lovin it.
obviously i wont do all those things, i get thrown under the bus so often by so many evil ppl and instead of standin up for myslef im just pissed inside and pretend im fine and wont even comment wishin i had come up with some clever jaw droppin reply but instead my ass gets kicked everytime and i wont even fight. i jsut let it be.
am i happy hes not like that? god yes. my ex was an infp. it was nice and fuzzy between us but to the world we were jsut the small meaningless fish hangiun out in the corner gettin eaten by sharks everyday. he was so good and nice that it pissed me off sometimes.
example there was a cart strollin towards a nice car on a walmart parking lot that would hit it pretty hard and leave a mark and he noticed it from his car and rode there to let the cart hit his car coz it wasnt as nice as the other one. he was always agreeing with me on everyting that it got simply boring however stupid it sounds. if we had to make a decision it would be what do u want what bout u and wut bout u and how bout u. yes he was caring and loving towards me but also others, very helpful and thats why ppl would take advatage of him so often. wouldnt pay him for a job hes done, ar make him wait forever or sth, coz he wouldont complain.
all this was nice for me but for others as well, who would constantly use his genuine kindness and helpfullness, without giving back.
im with an estj now and i like it that hes a bad boy meaning he protects us and all coz u know im no good at this stuff as an infp. i like it how hes not afraid of anything, hes a person with his own opinions instead of always agreeing with me on every single thing, and how hes driven and motivated to get what he wants in life.
of course unlikely a good guy hell pick a fight sometimes, hell critisize if he doesnt like sth, he wont agree on everything im ssaying, he can be stubborn, wont spend 100% of his time with me coz theres a lot of things goin on in his life, but thats a price im payin and im willin to.