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I am looking for some good resources that would give me details on how typical INTPs process relationships, intellectually, emotionally, and sexually.
 

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INTP - Chapter 6: How to Date (and Interpret) an INTP

Only thing came to my mind fast enough, you can ask direct questions too. Surely someone can link you some interesting cognitive functions articles.

We are used to have our romantic and foolish hopes stomp and cast aside, mostly by a mix of our own minds and fear of rejection.

It's always welcome to have souls wanting to understand others behaviours instead of judging and get rid off for being strange.
 

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Haha. I know it's not the case. But the straight-to-the-point with this thread makes it feel like INTP's is a thing and the forum is about how to use those things.

Like a motor forum. "I am looking for some good resources that would give me details on how to change the rotor in a VW V8 motor. Materials, tools, and steps needed."
 

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INTPs approach their intimate relationships quite seriously - as they approach most things in life. They take their vows and commitments seriously, and are usually faithful and loyal. They are usually pretty easy to live with and be around, because they have simple daily needs and are not overly demanding of their partners in almost any respect. While the INTP's internal life is highly theoretical and complex, their external life in comparison is usually quite simple. They like to keep the complexities of their external world to a minimum, so that they can focus their brain power on working through their theories internally. This makes them very straight-forward, honest lovers, with a love that is quite pure in its simple, uncomplicated nature.

Although they choose to keep things straight-forward in their relationships, this does not mean that the INTP is lacking in depth of feeling or passion. The INTP is very creative person, who has vivid imaginations. They can be very excitable and passionate about their love relationships. Sometimes, they have a problem reconciling the exciting visions of their internal worlds with the actuality of their external circumstances.

Sexually, the INTP usually approaches intimacy with enthusiasm and excitement. Some INTPs play down entirely the need for sexual relations in their lives, but most use their rich imaginations and child-like enthusiasm to make the most of the moment. The INTP will usually be experiencing the moment with vivid intensity inside their own minds, although this may or may not be apparent to their partner.

The largest area of potential strife in an INTP's intimate relationship is their slowness in understanding and meeting their partner's emotional needs. The INTP may be extremely dedicated to the relationship, and deeply in love with their partner, but may have no understanding of their mate's emotional life, and may not express their own feelings often or well. When the INTP does express themselves, it's likely to be in their own way at their own time, rather than in response to their partner's needs. If this is an issue which has caused serious problems in a relationship, the INTP should work on becoming more aware of their partner's feelings, and their partner should work on not requiring explicit positive affirmation to feel loved by the INTP.

INTPs do not like to deal with messy complications, such as interpersonal conflict, and so they may fall into the habit of ignoring conflict when it occurs. If they feel they must face the conflict, they're likely to approach it from an analytical perspective. This may aggravate the conflict situation, if their partner simply wants to feel that they are supported and loved. Most people (and especially those with the Feeling preference) simply want to be encouraged, affirmed and supported when they are upset. The INTP should practice meeting these needs in conflict situations.
To give some data + numerous acounts to how INTPs view sexuality (quite a lot of variability)
https://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2016/08/mbti-sexuality/3/
 
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