:blushed::blushed:Actually, I have to say the greatest compliment I've ever received wasn't really an explicit compliment at all - I was just listened to. Reallylistened to. That's all, just to have someone actually take the time and concentration to really hear to what I have to say.
I think the people I know in everyday life just sort of tune me out after a while. To have someone actually care about what I was saying...that means so much more to me than I could ever explain.
I think people just don't realize how invalidating having your thoughts ignored can be to some.
no doubt. I'm just trying to figure out what makes an INTJ blushRation and archetype aside, I've lately found that giving compliments to those who genuinely deserve them is a more mutually beneficial approach than trying to dig up all of those I've received over the years.