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I'm a new poster but have been a faithful reader for quite some time.
I realize the adorable ISTJ's on this forum have already been badgered with questions about your modus operandi when romantically interested in someone...
... and here is, yet, the same ol' question with a little different spin :blushed:
Can anyone offer insight as to how an ISTJ might express romantic interest after reaching middle age?
I find myself completely smitten with a mature, confident, seemingly well-adjusted ISTJ man. We've been casually acquainted for about a year but see each other only 2-3 times each month for just an hour or so. Each of us are divorced after longtime, committed marriages (25+ years).
I feel certain there's a great deal of mutual attraction between us... actually initiated by him with lots of staring, watching and friendly smiles. At times, however, his behavior leaves me wondering if I'm just making something out of nothing. Aside from a fiery physical chemistry, we have many things in common and both regard our faith as the most important thing in life.
Please also offer your thoughts about an ISFJ-ISTJ relationship. Does an ISFJ have positive attributes to bring to a relationship with an ISTJ?
I realize the adorable ISTJ's on this forum have already been badgered with questions about your modus operandi when romantically interested in someone...
... and here is, yet, the same ol' question with a little different spin :blushed:
Can anyone offer insight as to how an ISTJ might express romantic interest after reaching middle age?
I find myself completely smitten with a mature, confident, seemingly well-adjusted ISTJ man. We've been casually acquainted for about a year but see each other only 2-3 times each month for just an hour or so. Each of us are divorced after longtime, committed marriages (25+ years).
I feel certain there's a great deal of mutual attraction between us... actually initiated by him with lots of staring, watching and friendly smiles. At times, however, his behavior leaves me wondering if I'm just making something out of nothing. Aside from a fiery physical chemistry, we have many things in common and both regard our faith as the most important thing in life.
Please also offer your thoughts about an ISFJ-ISTJ relationship. Does an ISFJ have positive attributes to bring to a relationship with an ISTJ?