After realizing I can only connect with others using a shared external activity, I've come to the conclusion I have to learn to interact with people for various purposes. Once I do make connections they're stonk as hell, but making them in the first place seem to be pure luck so far and I seem to be pretty lucky...I just don't want to rely on it all the time. Fellow INTJ's do you have any books on this subject or advice you'd like to refer to me? I could just google it of course, but recommendations are helpful especially for those who've practiced or used the info from the INTJ perspective. Thanks in advance o7.