I can have the best conversations with NTs, I feel like they're on my same level. That said, I find our values can be very different and I always have had very damaging and painful conflicts with every NT i closely know...Two of which are very good friends, one of which is my dad.
I have great chats with everyone. The only person I haven't had a good chat with was that cab driver I had in November 2009. I don't know his type but he was pretty dang closed. And nope, I still haven't let it go. Lol.