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i just hate to ask people personal questions, i just feel it would be intrusive and it is to risky.

for example i saw a tattoo on a mate in TAFE which looked like a memorial tattoo of somebody close, i dared not ask him anything about it, then another person asked him and it turned out fine....damn xD

anyone else like this? anyone know why?
 

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Same.

I also feel really uncomfortable saying peoples names for some reason, I usually just avoid it if I can.
 

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Same.

I also feel really uncomfortable saying peoples names for some reason, I usually just avoid it if I can.
Well your one up on me, i do NOT remember names EVER.

but seriously that is interesting, i cannot relate to that! can you propose why that is?
 

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Well your one up on me, i do NOT remember names EVER.
Oddly enough, I'm really bad with faces. I could see you everyday for a year, leave, than immediately forget what you looked like.

can you propose why that is?
I honestly have no clue. In RL I'm an intensely serious person, despite acting like a dipshit online. Saying peoples names feels intrusive; its like calling a supermarket employee by the name on their tag, its just weird. Calling someone by their names is too personal for me until I've decided that were friends, but than I still end up using their last names instead.

I usually just say: "Hey, you!" or "Oh-shit! It's you!" etc. As long as I can avoid it.

I dunno, I'm just weird I guess. :tongue:
 

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I dislike asking questions too, even when I'm getting to know someone. I prefer to observe and listen. Although, I don't mind being asked questions. If they insist I ask them something, I usually turn around the question they just used on me.
 
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