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I was just wondering for anyone who is an ENFP, have you ever been asked out by another ENFP? If so how did it make you feel, and did you accept?
Have you ever been asked out by another ENFP?
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I dated and lived with one for a few years when I was younger. Unfortunately he was very unhealthy (I wasn't very mature myself either) It was a pretty crazy/self-destructive relationship. I had the best and worst times of my life with him.
To answer your question: When he first expressed that he liked me and officially made the first move; I was overjoyed. I really felt that he genuinely understood me and accepted me for who I was (which was true) I think the problem for me was that I really needed more stability at that point in my life. We were both two crazy little ENFPs riding a massive wave of Ne - I don't think Fi even came into the equation! Let's just say I lived a fairly hedonistic lifestyle for a few years before I totally burnt out.
I'm not saying that all ENFP/ENFP relationships will be like this by the way - just sharing my own experience
To answer your question: When he first expressed that he liked me and officially made the first move; I was overjoyed. I really felt that he genuinely understood me and accepted me for who I was (which was true) I think the problem for me was that I really needed more stability at that point in my life. We were both two crazy little ENFPs riding a massive wave of Ne - I don't think Fi even came into the equation! Let's just say I lived a fairly hedonistic lifestyle for a few years before I totally burnt out.
I'm not saying that all ENFP/ENFP relationships will be like this by the way - just sharing my own experience
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Somebody ask me out so I can say yes to the OP's question..... NOW!
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Hey sweet cheeks, you want to go out? ;D
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It's funny because as soon as I read "sweet cheeks" I looked at your avatar! LOL But I was looking for a ENFP to ask me out.... Sorry I should have been more specific...
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LOL.
I know, I was going to ask you anyway. I didn't even read your post, I had it planned all along. Bad timing, I guess. At least now you can say "no, but some crazy ESTP just asked me out, even better". You wouldn't be lying.
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Some crazy ESTP with a aesthetically hott avatar asked me out! Yessss! Proof that I am hott!
He didn't so much ask me as get really creepy about the whole thing. O.O He'd send me random text messages asking me if I read any good books or played any new games. I didn't give him my phone number, either....his matchmaking sister-in-law did. -.- He was a nice guy, but it made me really uncomfortable. He asked me what kind of underwear I wore once..... ><
I don't think I'd want to date another ENFP - my dad is one....and I don't want to date my dad. XD
I don't think I'd want to date another ENFP - my dad is one....and I don't want to date my dad. XD
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We had only been briefly introduced before, so I was extremely nervous.
My nerves made me hesitate, but he eventually wore me down enough to accept, lol.
My nerves made me hesitate, but he eventually wore me down enough to accept, lol.
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