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so i think it was kateykinz? but someone posted a thread on here about INFJ bus-riding patterns and someone talked about how INFJs naturally start looking to the left when they go into "thinking" mode when they are daydreaming or whatnot.
i noticed someone i talk to recently... like when we are talking, he doesn't prefer to look straight at each other, or gaze/ stare at someone directly. when he talks, sometimes he is looking in one direction, so i have the feeling he is looking in that direction, but in reality, he is sort of studying someone out of the corner of his eyes. like, if we are sitting side by side, and talking before lecture together, it'll look like he's staring straight at the front, but i notice he is actually looking out of the corner of his eye towards my direction. for me, i'm pretty sure i fall into the pattern of staring/gazing directly at that person or if im aware of my staring, i take a break and look elsewhere, but i usually have to have my gaze concentrated somewhere. so if we sit side by side, i usually turn my body a little, so it's more accomodating, and i like to make eye contact or if not, i will focus my gaze somewhere else, but i don't have that "face in one direction/eye in another direction" thinkg going on.
So have you guys seen anyone do this? if so , do you know what preferences they've been? maybe not TYPE but just knowing any type of preferences would be helpful. as people -watchers, im sure many of us have seen SOMEONE do this? i wish i can know what preferences/types usually do this tho.
i noticed someone i talk to recently... like when we are talking, he doesn't prefer to look straight at each other, or gaze/ stare at someone directly. when he talks, sometimes he is looking in one direction, so i have the feeling he is looking in that direction, but in reality, he is sort of studying someone out of the corner of his eyes. like, if we are sitting side by side, and talking before lecture together, it'll look like he's staring straight at the front, but i notice he is actually looking out of the corner of his eye towards my direction. for me, i'm pretty sure i fall into the pattern of staring/gazing directly at that person or if im aware of my staring, i take a break and look elsewhere, but i usually have to have my gaze concentrated somewhere. so if we sit side by side, i usually turn my body a little, so it's more accomodating, and i like to make eye contact or if not, i will focus my gaze somewhere else, but i don't have that "face in one direction/eye in another direction" thinkg going on.
So have you guys seen anyone do this? if so , do you know what preferences they've been? maybe not TYPE but just knowing any type of preferences would be helpful. as people -watchers, im sure many of us have seen SOMEONE do this? i wish i can know what preferences/types usually do this tho.