Hi! I am an ENFP female. I am best friends with an INFP male and have known him for more than 2 years now. Both of us are very compatible and do not have any secrets from one another. I recently realised that I am in love with him. After a few months of trying to suppress it, I ended up telling him about it. After I told him completely how I felt, he said that he had not thought about me that way, eventhough he thinks I'm a great person, mainly because of his previous relationship (which has left him a little afraid to trust again). He said he needs time to think about it, and I said I understood. It has been 10 days since I confessed to him, and he still hasn't given me an answer. I made sure that every time we met, there was no awkwardness between us. But I have been the one initiating the meet ups. He does text me more often now and initiates conversations via text a little bit more than before. But other than that, I do not see any differences in our friendship. I want to give him space to decide on his feelings. But I'm finding it increasingly difficult to be patient. Should I just ask him where he thinks our relationship is heading or should I stick it out and wait for him to come to me? Please give me some insight into what he is thinking.