I went out with an ISFJ once. She was the warmest, most gentle person I've ever met. Although she wasn't very spontaneous or adventurous, she's the sweetest girl I know and I'm sure she would have done anything to make me happy. I broke up with her because I felt that there was an intellectual void between us and that she didn't understand my inner world. She cried for 2 days and didn't even show up to class the day after I broke up with her because she was so upset. I'm having a really hard time figuring out how I feel about her now and I'm considering trying to get back with her. I feel really guilty about the whole situation (because its all my fault, she probably would have married me if I hadn't broken up with her) and I'm having a really hard time grasping my feeling about this. Is this a good idea? What advice can y'all lend to me? I think this is just my Fe showing, and I do have a strong 4 wing on the enneamagram, so maybe I'm just getting overly emotional? Help me!