Wow I actually came to PerC because I'm having similar issues.I am unhappy at work, unhappy at home, and I hardly ever go out anymore.
I was going to start a "Cheer me up" I'm depressed thread, but you beat me to it.
I notice we ENFP's make a big deal out of shit that other types seem to get over easier....
I drink, but it makes it worse in the long run.
I can't offer you much except that I hear ya bud.