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Yeah, I know what you're all thinking. "As if his ego wasn't big enough already".
But listen! I will try to explain this the best way possible. I.E. totally without order.
I've tried to ignore this for the longest time. But it can no longer be ignored.
Ever since I realized I was an ENFJ, I felt like I lost that respect, glory and entitlement I feel people who identify as NTs get. That's not to say that I said I was an ENTJ just to feel good about myself, I genuinely believed I was one, and there are times I have my doubts. But still, you can't say you feel totally equal to us Feelers.
I don't feel at home among the NFs, and as I spent more time in the entirety of the NT forum again, I felt that I wasn't totally welcome anymore. I was treated differently as an ENTJ than I'm treated now.
Of course, this won't stop me from bothering you NTs, but I feel like I lost a part of my identity. In real life, I make sure that I don't think too highly of myself now that I've become subjective and biased. That's the price of being a Feeler. You're not entitled to feel like your decisions are perfect. T.T
I need you guys to discuss this.
Are my suspicions and doubts with good reason?
But listen! I will try to explain this the best way possible. I.E. totally without order.
I've tried to ignore this for the longest time. But it can no longer be ignored.
Ever since I realized I was an ENFJ, I felt like I lost that respect, glory and entitlement I feel people who identify as NTs get. That's not to say that I said I was an ENTJ just to feel good about myself, I genuinely believed I was one, and there are times I have my doubts. But still, you can't say you feel totally equal to us Feelers.
I don't feel at home among the NFs, and as I spent more time in the entirety of the NT forum again, I felt that I wasn't totally welcome anymore. I was treated differently as an ENTJ than I'm treated now.
Of course, this won't stop me from bothering you NTs, but I feel like I lost a part of my identity. In real life, I make sure that I don't think too highly of myself now that I've become subjective and biased. That's the price of being a Feeler. You're not entitled to feel like your decisions are perfect. T.T
I need you guys to discuss this.
Are my suspicions and doubts with good reason?