I'm new to this whole forum thing, I'm an ESTJ from the northwest of the United States. I have an INFP sister who baffles me and claims to despise me for my J personality trait. We're opposites on each personality trait, so no wonder there are some conflicts. I've noticed that ESTJs get kind of a bad rap in general. My main fault: I hate keeping secrets, and tend to humiliate myself further when I'm feeling judged. I don't know why, it's kind of nonsensical.
My main question though, is about the ISTP personality type, and particularly how they display love and affection. According to the personality profiles at least, the ISTP and the ESTJ are best suited for each other in a relationship.