INFP here in desperate love/hate with an ENFJ...so here we go!
I've been interested in an ENFJ boy for a few years now and due to a lying INTP friend he now knows (even though he always had some idea) that I had strong feelings for him. He was very enthused to hear this as he always had a thing for me as well. He was highly flirtatious with me which tickled me pink and even went through the trouble of buying a tux with his own money and such even though he's out of school and saving up for college. He tells my friends that I'm the most beautiful thing that's ever lived and finds my innocent nature absolutely charming.
Then he runs off with a skank lol, but the reason for this is apparently because a friend of mine told him that I am clueless about sex and am unwilling to have it with him before marriage...which is untrue...so the relationship with skank (sorry but she is...she's like our town whore hahaha ). Lasted a week. When I talk to him again he tells me that he's not I'm the mood for dating and that I should let my "schoolgirl crush" blow over. That hurt. Yet he still talks to other girls like he's interested but in a very apathetic way. Like he's extremely hurt...that's how he always sounds now. I'm afraid he may have taken it that I was never really interested in the first place. I hate seeing him so upset and not being able to help him.
The weirder part is while he really doesn't talk to me anymore...if he ever sees me anywhere and has to be around me for an extended period of time he just umm...like attaches himself to me like he never said anything about me having an immature crush on him. He gets extremely attentive of my feelings above any other person in the room...then when its time for me or him to leave he completely ignores that I'm alive.
I still have very strong feelings for him and want to help him...but he acts like I no longer exist. Should I just move on (though I will be seeing him every once in a while) or is there anything I can do. Just what is up with this guys actions?