I heard today that my brother-in-law was killed last night. He was such a nice guy and I always really looked up to him and loved hanging out with him. Such a great guy. I'm really struggling to even accept that he's gone. Even typing those words is so hard. I didn't want to post this here but I've been trying to go on with my usual activities and I just can't any longer. I've lost loved ones before but that doesn't make this any easier. Does anyone have advice on how to deal with this type of situation?